As usual, I came to office with my mum using the same routine... There is a cut-in that we have used since donkey years ago =) This morning, accident happened!!
The stupid Kia driver, was keep on hitting the accelarator although our car has totaly stopped. Mum had been noticed the car as what we called "lembu"!! Although we stopped the car, he still continue moving further, further and further... Till he hit our car!!! !!!
You can listened to the "erk" sound because he sctrached it through the back door... ... We had an agreement to settle at a junction which is less traffic =)
Once we double check. luckily "Leng Cai Kia" [how I named my car] didn't have any "scar"... But his car damaged lo... The right hand side of the front part "kemek" la!!
Once he started to talk, is like our wrong like that!! Say we cut-in is not right la... Say if everyone do like this then the jam is bad la... Jam for one hour la!! Ne-ne-ne-ne-ne-ne... Keep on blaming us!! The problem here is, for donkey years we used that way and the cut-in way didn't put a no-entry sign!!! So, that's mean we can come in from there la!!!
He started kind of polite way... He asked one silly question: "Your car don't have damage right, but my car is damage... How you want to settle?" We were like "WHAT", our wrong?? Settle what?? Your own damage made by your own??
He even took out his handicap idenification card... Like want to throw the responsibility to us you know... My mum also started to raise up her volumn and mentioned if he insist it, we can go to made a police report together!! We were not wrong...
After some time, I can't "tahan" already... I said "You don't push the responsibility to us!!" to him loudly, clear enough for the whole row of houses to listen!! Then, he get angry and said I being rude!! He even shouted "Fxxx you!!" to me!! Now who is being rude?? He or me??
I think he felt challenged because a little girl scolded him in public just like that!! I'm just saying what I think is necessary to stop him from blaming us for his own mistake and damage!! In total, he scolded "Fxxx you!!" 2 times... He even stared at me with his big eyes!! And wanted to come and slapped me, I think... But my mum apology on my behalf!! Then he complaning I'm a girl, cannot be so rude, no manners... ... Now who is the one being RUDE???
My mum asked me to wait in the car and I closed the door and stood exactly at the same point as I get down!! The guy stared at me again!! I didn't say anything... He kept continuing that I'm a rude girl... Then I answered him firmly: "I can't stand here meh?" Then he continue talking about the issue of being rude again, and again... I stand at the same place and do fancy facial expression to him la!!Not to say fancy, but just like telling him "I don't afraid of you" kind of thingy... Wahahahahahaha... ...
The wife stepped down and my mum explained again to her. This time he didn't mentioned a single thing!! After some time I think it was settled, I went in to the car... But my tears started to pour down heavily because my mum actually apologize for my wrong?? If I would not "shouted" at him, I don't think the case will settle that easily...
After all, I know my mum afraid if she don't apologize, the guy might probably hit me!! But we remain silent during the journey to her office... ... My tears kept pouring down... I don't know why... May be it have been some time the last time I cried and my tears want to swim out gua ^^
I called my father about it and he tell me not to cry... ... Hmm... ... After all, it have passed!! Girls... Sometimes you need to show them [guys] some "colors" or else they'll definately take advantage on it!! But... Don't forget to protect yourselves 1st lo =)
Love,
~w!nX~
